I never imagined that I would become part of such a growing segment of society; the hearing impaired. At least six people I know are completely deaf in one ear. It’s a lot of work for them to make sure they’re always on their good side for a conversation. Some of them simply avoid social situations because it’s too much work.
My hearing loss is definitely work-related although I’d have a tough time proving it. Most job-related hearing loss happens because there’s too much noise in the atmosphere and no proper protection from it. In my case, the noise came through headphones, directly into my ear canals. Also, I had control of the volume. It was necessary to crank it to 11 to mix songs back in the day, but it wasn’t necessary to leave it that loud.
I shared this list on Facebook and it resonated with a lot of people. Several commented on how difficult it is to navigate in a hearing world. People mumble and turn away as they talk. They talk softly and if they respond to a request for an increase in volume, it’s only short-term. And they get frustrated and angry when they have to repeat themselves, as if it’s our fault! Remember: hearing aids are just aids, not cures. I hope this info gets around.
In many cases, the barriers to hearing a conversation for those with hearing loss, are equally true for those who are blind. for one’s ability to hear a conversation is dependent on one’s ability to see the speaker. Additionally, background noise can drown out your words if you don’t speak loudly or project your voice. Tip, if having a conversation with a group, sit at a round not square table.
What you’re doing is helpful and part of a movement to take away the stigma of hearing loss. It’s so illogical: we wear glasses openly and with style; hearing aids however are seen by many as a sign of age, so they shy away. What a difference these little miraculous devices have made to so many of my friends and my dear husband who, like you, lost his hearing due to mixing and headphone levels. Thanks for spreading the word: we HEAR you, loud and clear! xo
I know so many people with hearing aids – completely normal to me. The worst part seems to me is the constant adjusting. It seems like it is a necessity, up & down with them squealing in protest occasionally. I think it’s great that there is an aid available and that everyone gets to enjoy the party ?